“I like to go to church, go to the movies, take a little walk, get in the shade, and get in the sun,” Alice Ames beams as she shows off her home and discusses what living in the community means to her.  Her electric pink and blue butterfly decorated bedspread is reflective of her energetic personality.

            “And dancing makes me feel good,” Alice continues with her hands swaying in the air.  Her music collection includes: Christian Rock, The Jackson 5, and her prized, Jesus Christ Superstar.  “It’s my favorite.  I saw it last summer and I want to go see it again!” 

            Alice smiles as she reminisces about seeing the musical last summer. Alice goes on to say that her life is full of friends and activities.  She likes shopping at the Valley Mall and having people come over and visit her at her home. Another activity that Alice enjoys is participating in self-advocacy groups.  The self-advocacy groups provide an opportunity for Alice to learn about the importance of making decisions for herself.  Alice has been an active participant in self-advocacy groups in both Frederick and Washington Counties.

            Alice explains that self-advocacy has taught her how to successfully speak up for herself.  If you want something, “Tell people.  Be polite.  Talk nicely.  If you have a problem, ask your staff (for help).”

            Making decisions for oneself may seem like a granted liberty, but for people with developmental disabilities living in institutions, making choices is not always an option.  Alice once lived in an institution. 

            “It was noisy.  I like the peace and quite of my own room now.”  Alice now lives in a home that she shares with two other women.  Alice’s home is supported by staff to assist with personal care and making community connections.  Each person has their own room and privacy.

            “I like living in my own home,” Alice answers when given the option to pick her preference between residing in an institution or living in the community.

            Helping to decide what is for dinner, where to go for vacation, and what to do in her free time are other valued privileges that Alice has living in the community. “And working to make some money!”  Alice brags completing her list.